First date, don't make a mistake with your outfit! Codes for men and women before going out

Everyone is nervous on a first date.

Especially, the choice of clothes is an important point that influences your first impression on your partner.

In this article, we will thoroughly explain tips on how to choose the right outfit for a first date without making a mistake, from specific coordination by gender and by age group, to what to avoid.

 

This is how to dress perfectly for a first date! The secret to a good impression

Do you have trouble choosing the right outfit for a first date?

In fact, there is a clear rule for dressing to make a good impression.

Let's find a coordinated outfit that brings out your personality while taking into consideration various factors such as the location, time of day, and season of the date.

First, check the date plan! Choosing the right outfit for the destination

Before thinking about what to wear on the date, it is important to first check the date plan.

Depending on whether it is a date at an amusement park or a dinner at a fancy restaurant, the most appropriate attire will vary greatly.

For example, if the date plan is active, emphasize ease of movement and choose shoes with low heels and stretchy materials.

Specifically, for an amusement park date, jeans and sneakers are the basic attire, and a clean, plain T-shirt or shirt is recommended.

On the other hand, for a dinner date at a fancy restaurant, a slightly dressed-up outfit is appropriate, such as a jacket and shirt for men and a dress or skirt for women.

 

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By gender! First date outfits that make a good impression

 

Women's Version: Popular Cordage for a More Favorable First Date

The royal road! One-piece style

The one-piece style is a popular staple for a first date.

Since it is a simple one-piece, there is little need to worry about coordination, and it is a natural way to show off your femininity. We recommend a knee-length floral print one-piece with a beige or white cardigan. The price range is from 15,000 yen to 30,000 yen, and even fast fashion brands such as ZARA, H&M, and UNIQLO offer great one-piece dresses.

Pants style for a cool look

The pants style is a versatile coordinate that is easy to move around in and also gives off a modern, feminine look.

We especially recommend wearing high-waisted tapered pants with a front-in blouse. This style will also lengthen your legs and enhance your style.COLORFor taste, use a calm color such as navy or beige.COLORnavy or beige to create a mature atmosphere.

Specifically, we recommend UNIQLO's smart ankle pants (3,990 yen) and ZARA's satin blouse (5,990 yen). For shoes, choose low-heeled pumps or flat shoes for ease of walking. For a bag, a small shoulder bag is just the right size for a date.

Skirt style for a cute look

Skirt style is the strongest coordinate that can be both feminine and cute.

Pleated and flared skirts have impressive hems that sway with every movement, creating a natural loveliness. The best length is knee-length. It is neither too short nor too long and gives an elegant impression.

For the top, a simple plain knit or blouse will complete a glamorous outfit with the skirt as the star. For example, GU's pleated skirt (2,990 yen) and UNIQLO's merino wool knit (3,990 yen) will give you an expensive look for under 10,000 yen.

Men's version: Cleanliness and good impression

Clean, casual wear that makes a good impression

The most important part of a man's first date coordination is a clean finish.

A clean casual style can achieve the perfect balance between not too formal and not too formal.

The base is a pair of clean, slim chinos. UNIQLO's smart ankle pants (3,990 yen) are a cosy recommendation.

 

For tops, choose collared items such as oxford shirts and polo shirts. White, saxe blue, or other freshCOLORTaste is recommended. For shoes, choose loafers or deck shoes rather than sneakers, which look a little nicer.

 

ITEMS	Recommended Brand	Price Range	Points to choose
Pants	UNIQLO, GU	3,000-6,000 yen	Note the slim silhouette and length
Shirts	ZARA, H&M	4,000-8,000 yen	Form-fitting size
Shoes	ABC MART, AOKI	8,000-15,000 yen	Well-maintained and clean

Refreshingly simple cordage

Simple coordination is recommended for those who are not confident in their dressing style.

A white T-shirt, navy jacket, and beige chinos are a classic style that is both clean and trouble-free. For a jacket, choose a casual tailored jacket for a less stiff impression.

In terms of item selection, we recommend investing in basic items first. For example, UNIQLO's Supima cotton T-shirt (2,990 yen) feels great against the skin and has a beautiful silhouette, making it a staple item for date coordination.

Recommended Codes by Season

Spring: Light and festive attire

The balance between lightness and glamour is important for spring date coordination.

During the cherry blossom season, pastel colors such as pale pink and beige can be incorporated to complete a seasonal look. For women, a floral dress or skirt should take center stage. For men, spring-like outfits such as brightly colored shirts and beige pants are recommended.COLORand beige trousers.

As a specific example of coordination, for a cherry blossom viewing date, women should wear a knee-length flower-patterned one-piece dress (about 8,000 yen) and a light cardigan (about 4,000 yen). For footwear, choose flat shoes that are easy to walk in.

Summer: Cool and refreshing attire

Heat protection is important for summer dates. However, avoid too much exposure. For women, a linen dress or a combination of a loose-fitting blouse and a knee-length skirt is recommended. For men, a linen shirt or polo shirt as the main attire is a good choice.

For example, for an aquarium date, it is best for women to wear a skirt made of contact-cooling material (5,990 yen) and a blouse made of lightweight material (4,990 yen). Bring a light cardigan as well, in case the room is air-conditioned.

Autumn: Calm, mature attire

The key to fall date coordination is to dress in a way that is unique to the season when you can enjoy layering. For women, a knit dress or pleated skirt paired with a light knit is a classic. Throw on a trench coat and you have an outfit that is instantly autumnal. For men, we recommend layering a knit over a casual shirt or a light jacket.

Specifically, for an art museum date, women should coordinate UNIQLO's merino wool knit (3,990 yen) with GU's pleated skirt (2,990 yen) and ZARA's trench coat (12,990 yen). For men, an oxford shirt (4,990 yen) layered with a cashmere-blend V-neck knit (7,990 yen) is a great style.

Winter: Warm and elegant attire

Winter dating is all about striking a balance between protection from the cold and looking good. For women, a turtleneck knit with a long skirt or a knit dress with long boots is a great style. For men, a neat and warm outfit is best, such as a turtleneck knit paired with a chester coat.

For an illumination date, women should combine a cashmere blend knit from UNIQLO (7,990 yen) with a pleated long skirt from ZARA (6,990 yen) and low-heeled long boots (about 15,000 yen) on their feet. For men, a UNIQLO U turtleneck sweater (4,990 yen) and a chester coat (15,990 yen) will complete a clean, mature look.

Recommended coordinates by age group

Teens and 20s: Fresh outfits incorporating trends

For the younger generation, it is important to coordinate with trendy items while keeping a clean look. For women, we recommend oversized knits and pleated skirts, wide pants and crop tops, and other outfits with a modern look. However, care should be taken not to expose too much or be too casual.

For men, it is best to dress with one trendy item, such as a big silhouette shirt and slim pants. Specifically, we recommend coordinating an oversized shirt from ZARA (5,990 yen) with smart ankle pants from UNIQLO (3,990 yen).

30s: Mature and elegant attire

For those in their 30s, try to dress in a classy manner while incorporating trends in moderation.

Women should choose items that can be worn alone, such as a simple one-piece dress or set-up. Accessories should be used sparingly to create an elegant impression.

 

Age Group	Key points of coordination	Recommended Items	Points to Avoid
10-20s	Trend oriented	Oversize Items	Overexposed
30s	Emphasis on elegance	Set-up	Wearing too casual
Over 40s	Emphasis on texture	Items made of high quality materials	Designs that are too young

Over 40s: Attire that brings out the charm of a calm and mature person

For those in their 40s and older, pay attention to the texture of materials and the care with which they are dressed. Avoid flashy designs and overly youthful outfits, and keep the attire simple but of high quality. For example, for women, a beautiful pants suit with a scarf or a one-piece dress made of high-quality material is recommended.

 

Specifically, we recommend choosing a good quality one-piece dress (around 20,000 to 30,000 yen) from brands such as UNTITLED or INDIVI. For accessories, add dignity with modest accessories such as a delicate necklace and elegant pearls.

Do not fail on a first date! Points for choosing the right attire

The most important thing to remember when choosing an outfit for a first date is to keep a clean look while maintaining your own personality. Avoid overly glamorous attire or, conversely, overly casual attire.

Use the checklist below to help you choose the right attire:

• Clean (no wrinkles or stains)
• Appropriate size (not too tight or too loose)
• Is it appropriate for the time and place of the date?
• Does it allow for ease of movement (especially for an active date)?

What kind of clothing should be avoided?

The following is a specific explanation of what to avoid on a first date. First, be wary of clothing that is too revealing. For example, avoid wearing a miniskirt and camisole or a bare navel look. Also, overly casual clothes such as damaged jeans and sportswear are not appropriate for a first date.

The following is a summary of NG points to be especially careful about:

• Extreme exposure (miniskirts, deep V-necks, etc.)
• Dirty or wrinkled clothing
• Sportswear or jerseys
• Patterns that are too flashy orCOLORuse

Be careful about more than just your clothes! Points to increase the likability

By paying attention not only to your clothes but also to your overall appearance, you can expect to further increase your likability.

Keep your hair in a clean style and do not forget to take care of your nails. If you use perfume, wear it sparingly.

Specific points to consider:

• Hair should be neatly styled.
• Nails are trimmed to the proper length and kept clean
• Jewelry should be worn sparingly.
• Always keep shoes clean and polished

In summary: Have a great first date with confidence!

Choosing the right outfit for a first date does not have to be difficult.

The most important thing is to choose appropriate attire for the location and the occasion, and to be mindful of cleanliness.

Please enjoy a wonderful first date by referring to the points introduced in this article and coordinating your outfit in a way that makes the most of your personality.

The important thing is to be confident in the clothes you wear. Instead of forcing yourself to choose a style that is different from your usual, choose an outfit that will give you a better impression while maintaining your own personality. This will allow you to relax and have a fun date.